So we've been looking at finances and trying to figure out what we should do for childcare- we both work. Today DH proposes we pull DS out of daycare for 3 months beginning in June to save some $$ While im on leave. We can afford to keep him in, this would just be a 'bonus'.... In any case my first reaction was no, at least not until we see what type of babies we have and how I adjust. I think it will be hard on me and hard on DS as I won't be able to give him the attention he needs and will probably be stuck inside more than he should be. DH turned douche indicates that he's disappointed and I should want to have this time with all 3. Frankly I'm pissed and don't appreciate him making me feel bad about this. I just know myself and even with easy babies, I think 3 by myself will be tough. We have no family or help here, so it will be all me. I know many of you do it and I admire you all, I just know how hard it was with just DS last time. Thoughts?
6/20/11 mc @ 5wks
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IUI #1 4/26/12 BFN
Moving on to IVF in July
37 with DOR...fabulous
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