Let me ask your opinion on this...
My husband's family is Greek Orthodox...kind of nominally so. (We are not, nor is his mom) His brother and sister in law have two children, both baptized in the Greek Orthodox church. When the first child was baptized, they asked my mother in law not to get her anything with religious undertones. Long story short - my mother in law has a very strong faith and can come off a bit pushy, my sister in law pretty much converted just so she could marry my brother in law.
Anyway, I feel like no matter the situation, it's a complete double standard to have your child baptized in any church and be offended when you get religious gifts...we are talking about a child's Bible here, not something crazy!
What do you think about this? Sorry if the details are confusing, it's 2:30 am and I can't sleep