Are you having a hard time feeling like the name fits LO? We're naming DD2 after my Mom who passed away last year. H and I started saying her name and are getting used to it, but when other people say it it totally throws me for a loop. I also can't say her name in front of my Dad. I say "the baby" or "she", but never "Hope".
It's family tradition (my side is Jewish) to name LOs after departed loved ones, but I can't help but feel like I'm taking something away from my Mom. It's just weird. Anyone relate?
And wow, sorry for the Debbie Downer!