TTC After a Loss

Taking a break

I'm not in a good place right now and am thinking I need a short break from TB.  I'm struggling a bit and need to clear my mind of TTC for at least this week.  We may just take this next cycle off from TTC, but haven't decided for sure yet.   

I run 2 check-in's and was wondering if anyone would be willing to take them over until I return?

I run the November Angels check-in (on Tuesday) and the IF check-in (on Thursday).  They aren't difficult to run.  As a matter of fact, nobody has responsed to the November Angels check-in in weeks, so that one is super easy.  The IF check-in takes a little time, but not too much and the ladies are wonderful. 

If nobody is able to do them, I will continue them.

 

 

 

BFP: 9/3/98, DS born 5/7/99

Married DH: 12/10/11
TTC: 12/2011

3 Angel babies in 2012
1 Angel baby in 2014
~~~~Missing my Angels every day~~~~

Failed IF treatments in 2013

Break cycle:
BFP: 8/25/13, DD born 5/2/14

September 2014:  TTC Rainbow baby #2

 

 

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Re: Taking a break

  • Sorry things are going so well, I hope your break is good for you and refreshing!

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  • I'm sorry you're having a rough time!    TTC can be the suck sometimes, and sometimes a sanity break is much needed.   I hope things start to go your way and you come back to us soon (or get KU and only come back to let some of us know!).

    If you're up to it, I would love to still see you on our CB updates, but I understand if it's too much right now.

    ((((((HUGS))))))) 

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  • I'm sorry you need to take a break- I'll do the November check in for you. I know no one has responded in awhile but as a former November mama I want to make sure it's still up in case someone does want to post. Anything I need to know?

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    D&C #2 Chromosome analysis results: Translocation Trisomy 14

    My RPL Testing: Homozygous MTHFR, normal karyotype

    DH's karyotype results: Robertsonian Translocation 13:14

    BFP #3 9.10.13 mc at 4 weeks~Our little May Flower~ 

    BFP #4 10.13.13- Our Rainbow Baby, a little girl, arrived June 25, 2014! 

                                                                              


     

     

     

     

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    I'm sorry honey. SO SO SO many ((((hugs)))) right now. I wish I could squeeze you IRL.

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  • I'm sorry you're having a tough time right now. I hope the break gives you some peace.  ((hugs))


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    I'm sorry you need to take a break- I'll do the November check in for you. I know no one has responded in awhile but as a former November mama I want to make sure it's still up in case someone does want to post. Anything I need to know?


    Thank you!  I really appreciate it!

    It's really easy.  All you have to do is copy and paste last weeks and make any necessary changes (graduates, QOTW, new members, etc.).

    Here's the link to last weeks:
    http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/72291825.aspx

    Thank you again! :)

     

     

     

    BFP: 9/3/98, DS born 5/7/99

    Married DH: 12/10/11
    TTC: 12/2011

    3 Angel babies in 2012
    1 Angel baby in 2014
    ~~~~Missing my Angels every day~~~~

    Failed IF treatments in 2013

    Break cycle:
    BFP: 8/25/13, DD born 5/2/14

    September 2014:  TTC Rainbow baby #2

     

     

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    I'm sorry you're having a rough time!    TTC can be the suck sometimes, and sometimes a sanity break is much needed.   I hope things start to go your way and you come back to us soon (or get KU and only come back to let some of us know!).

    If you're up to it, I would love to still see you on our CB updates, but I understand if it's too much right now.

    ((((((HUGS))))))) 



    I will try.  Not sure how much I will be lurking, if at all, but I won't be gone for long.  :)  Thanks for the HUGS and right back at ya!

     

     

     

    BFP: 9/3/98, DS born 5/7/99

    Married DH: 12/10/11
    TTC: 12/2011

    3 Angel babies in 2012
    1 Angel baby in 2014
    ~~~~Missing my Angels every day~~~~

    Failed IF treatments in 2013

    Break cycle:
    BFP: 8/25/13, DD born 5/2/14

    September 2014:  TTC Rainbow baby #2

     

     

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    I'm sorry honey. SO SO SO many ((((hugs)))) right now. I wish I could squeeze you IRL.

    YGPM as soon as I hit send



    YGPM now too!

     

     

     

    BFP: 9/3/98, DS born 5/7/99

    Married DH: 12/10/11
    TTC: 12/2011

    3 Angel babies in 2012
    1 Angel baby in 2014
    ~~~~Missing my Angels every day~~~~

    Failed IF treatments in 2013

    Break cycle:
    BFP: 8/25/13, DD born 5/2/14

    September 2014:  TTC Rainbow baby #2

     

     

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  • Awww you will be sorely missed around here. You are one of the sweetest bumpies IMO and are always so supportive of others. But I understand needing a break.

    I hope it serves you well and you can always reach out to me anytime. You know that xoxoxoxo!!

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  • I'm sorry Hun :( hope you feel in a better head space soon! *hugs*
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  • ::hugs::

    sometimes breaks are great for the mind.  Hope it helps and you're in a better place soon.


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    I'm sorry honey. SO SO SO many ((((hugs)))) right now. I wish I could squeeze you IRL.

    YGPM as soon as I hit send



    YGPM now too!

    One more... :)


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  • Sorry Mattsgirl, I hope you feel better soon.

    If you are unable to find someone to cover the IF check in this Thursday, let me know. I just joined the IF ladies last week, but I have your back if needed.

     

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  • [[[[Hugs]]]] I hope the break gives you what you need.


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  • ((hugs)) I hope this break gives you some peace.

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    I'm sorry you're having a rough time!    TTC can be the suck sometimes, and sometimes a sanity break is much needed.   I hope things start to go your way and you come back to us soon (or get KU and only come back to let some of us know!).

    If you're up to it, I would love to still see you on our CB updates, but I understand if it's too much right now.

    ((((((HUGS))))))) 



    I will try.  Not sure how much I will be lurking, if at all, but I won't be gone for long.  :)  Thanks for the HUGS and right back at ya!

     

    I'm sorry you're not in a good place right now, mattsgirl. I second Avion's request to see you for our CB updates if you feel like lurking.  

    ((hugs)) ! and more ((hugs)) Come lean on us if you need the support.  

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  • I'm so sorry you're having a rough time. I hope a break clears your head! ((HUGS))
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  • ((HUGS)) I hope the break serves you well.

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    Many many hugs. I hope the break helps. Get the you time you need, no matter how long it takes.

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    BFP#2 6/30/12 MC#2 8/07/12 blighted ovum @ 9wks d&c 8/9/12

    BFP#3 5/09/13 MC#3 6/14/13 no hb @ 9wks d&c 6/19/13

    BFP#4 3/18/14 - Please be a rainbow !!!! EDD 11/28/14 !! IT'S A BOY !!

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    I see Wifey has already offered, but I could do IF if needed, too.

    So many (((hugs))) -- everyone needs a break now and then! I will be thinking of you. Sending many good wishes for peace and joy to you.  



    It doesn't matter to me who runs the check-in.  Either you or Wifey will work! :)  I plan on being gone the rest of this week for sure and possibly the week after...depending on how I am feeling.

    Thank you for the hugs and well wishes!

     

     

     

    BFP: 9/3/98, DS born 5/7/99

    Married DH: 12/10/11
    TTC: 12/2011

    3 Angel babies in 2012
    1 Angel baby in 2014
    ~~~~Missing my Angels every day~~~~

    Failed IF treatments in 2013

    Break cycle:
    BFP: 8/25/13, DD born 5/2/14

    September 2014:  TTC Rainbow baby #2

     

     

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  • I'm so sorry you are in such a rough place.  (((hugs)))

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  • Thank you all for the well wishes and for those who are helping with the check-ins.  I really, really appreciate it!  You ladies are the best! <3

     

     

     

    BFP: 9/3/98, DS born 5/7/99

    Married DH: 12/10/11
    TTC: 12/2011

    3 Angel babies in 2012
    1 Angel baby in 2014
    ~~~~Missing my Angels every day~~~~

    Failed IF treatments in 2013

    Break cycle:
    BFP: 8/25/13, DD born 5/2/14

    September 2014:  TTC Rainbow baby #2

     

     

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  • I'm sorry about how you're feeling and hope you find yourself in a better place soon. We will miss you (((HUGS)))

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  • I understand, but I don't like it. I'll miss you. Sending Prayers that you get to a good place.

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  • I'm really sorry you are having a hard time right now.  I hope things get better for you soon! ((HUGS))
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  • Big ((hugs)).  I hope the break helps.
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  • Sorry you are having a rough time. I hope the break is kind to you! Hugs!
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    ((hugs)) I'm sorry MG. I hope that a break helps you to feel better and I'm glad that you're doing what is best for you. 
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  • Well... I'm back.  I'd be happy to just pick the IF check-in back up again, unless anyone else is really clamouring for it.

    ((((mattsgirl))))  We're here when you need us, okay?

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