I have a good relationship with my MIl and she is an easy person to get along with.
My son is three months old and is very sensitive and fussy when he is anywhere out of the house. Anytime we are anywhere MIL (or FIL) immediately takes him from my arms and it always ends in a melt down. She doesn't even wait for a second, she sees us and just takes him away. Every.time. I want them to bond with him, but it has to be when he is ready for it, like at his house when he is rested and fed. Not out places with people in his face and he is overwhelmed. At those times he needs me to hold him to keep him calm.
My question is how do I tell MIL and FIL to back off without hurting their feelings? No matter how great they are, dealing with in laws is never fun in my opinion.