TTC After a Loss

One of those days....

Have you ever had just one of those days where you can't gain control over your emotions? That's how I have been all day. It has almost been 3 months since my D&C and hubby and I are trying again. Every where I turn someone either just gave birth or is happily pregnant. I am happy for those but so want to feel that kind of happiness. Just needed to vent.
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Re: One of those days....

  • So sorry you have having one of those days. Reaching out and sending you many hugs!
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    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
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  • Totally one of those days for me too! I feel pissed at the world right now...

     

    BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days

    BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
    Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
    BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
    BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
    BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
    BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
    Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
    More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.

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    Totally one of those days for me too! I feel pissed at the world right now...

     

    Me too - I have no idea why I am so pissed off, but I am today!

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    Totally one of those days for me too! I feel pissed at the world right now...

     

    Me too - I have no idea why I am so pissed off, but I am today!

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    TTC #1 March 2012: BFP: 7/13/2012 * EDD: 3/19/2013 * Natural M/C: 8/2/2012 at 7w2d

    October 2013 - dx unexplained IF    November 2013 Cycle#1 w/Clomid = BFP 11/27/13, EDD: 8/6/14!

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  • I totally get what you mean. It's like everywhere you go there are gobs of strollers, or pregnant people. It sucks. Big time.

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  • Just wanted to off you some (((HUGS)))

     

     

     

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  • I recently had one of those days. I said I was going to swear off facebook because everyone was announcing a birth or pg. It is SO frustrating! ((hugs)) to you! You are not alone, and we all need to vent those things out sometimes!
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    BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
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    2/1/14 -- EDD 10/5/14 -- NMC 2/10/14

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  • Right there with you. I'm a therapist, so I logically from my trraining i know that its conformational bias and I'm just ultra sensitive to pregnancy and babies at the moment, but it sure feels like everywhere I turn there is something else reminding me I'm not pg anymore. Sucks. I'm sorry. Here's hoping for better days soon!
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  • I'm sorry you're having a bad day sweetie. I totally know what you mean. Hope you start to feel better.

    ((HUGS)) 

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  • Omgosh! I've cried three times today. You're not alone! My 3rd DandC was 5 months ago and I still mourn. My counselor says its a grieving process, just like someone who had a relative die. It's normal to have down days. Hugs.
    DH, Jared 7/28/01; DD, Isabella Grace 11/28/06; said good-bye to baby 2 5/09 (11.5 weeks); said good-bye to Dakota Blu 11/09 (11.5 weeks); DS, Benjamin Cruz 12/6/10; said good-bye to babies 5 and 6 09/12 (8 weeks); baby "K" our foster son 11/28/12 came to us 1/7/14
  • I am with you. It has only been 4 days for me so it is all still so new for me. But one mins I am fine the next crying.

    Went to watch an old episode of Friends of course it is the Jen is pregnant episode.

    My friend just posted pics of her twins on fb. They are adorable 12 weeks today. I would have been 12 weeks 2 days. It is the little things that get to you.
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    Spotting,clot 2/15/13 all ok......2/21/13 no heartbeat 11 w 4 d missed miscarriage........2/22/13 DnC :(
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  • Just want to offer hugs. I'm sorry you're having a bad day.
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    9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs
    3/14: IUI#1 letrozole/Bravelle/Menopur + trigger = BFN
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  • I am so so sorry you had a bad day ((HUGS))

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  • Absolutely. Im really sorry you are having a rough day. It made me feel better when DH and mom said I would be worried if you didn't. Having a loss is a major thing in your life and some days are just hard. Take the time and honor that and let those close to you know that you are having a tough day and not keep it bottled in (I've done that and just act bitchy and that only causes tension with DH). 

    I also read some advice when surrounded by BFPs and that was to send a prayer for them and also one for yourself. I found that to be helpful.  

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    Started acupuncture/herbs July 2012 

    First BFP 9-8-2012,EDD 5-15-2013, heartbeat of 175 at 8w2d, mmc discovered on 10-26-12 (11w6d) Cytotec on 10/26/12

    8/23/13 DX with non-IR PCOS

    Second BFP 9.12.13, EDD 5.29.14, heartbeat of 114 at 6w1d, mmc discovered on 10-18-13, D&C on 10/23/13 (baby girl/Trisomy 10) 

    Third BFP (surprise at Beta draw after d&c) on 1/10/14 (15dpo), EDD 9.20.14 Please be our RAINBOW!

    Beta #1 (4w1d) - 83.9 Beta #2 (4w5d)- 482.4 (double time of 38 hrs)! Beta #3 (5w3d) - 6,556 Progesterone is 16.7

    First U/S on 1/27/14. Measuring on track with a heartbeat of 126!! WOOHOO!! 2nd U/S on 2/14 at 8w4d heartbeat of 176. 3rd U/S on 2/24 at 10w2d heartbeat of 176. 

    It's a GIRL! 

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  • It is definitely a roller coaster for sure. You're entitled to those days...just know your baby is on his or her way:) Lots of hugs and baby dust to you!
  • Thanks every one for the encouraging words. It's comforting to know that there are others that know how I'm feeling. Sorry you guys are going through the same. Wishing you brighter days ahead.
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    Absolutely. Im really sorry you are having a rough day. It made me feel better when DH and mom said I would be worried if you didn't. Having a loss is a major thing in your life and some days are just hard. Take the time and honor that and let those close to you know that you are having a tough day and not keep it bottled in (I've done that and just act bitchy and that only causes tension with DH). 

    I also read some advice when surrounded by BFPs and that was to send a prayer for them and also one for yourself. I found that to be helpful.  

    That is a great idea! I will be praying a lot!!

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