Where I live, written invitations for baby showers are not the norm. Typically this is done by the hostess or family contacting those being invited.
I still have my address lists from my wedding two years ago, but much of this isn't up to date any more.
To make matters trickier, many of my guests are from just outside of town where mail goes to a post box and not the house at all.
How do I get the addresses I need for thank-you cards with out being rude?
I was going to attempt to hand deliver, but I don't think that's going to work out so well.