Pregnant after a Loss

I hope it's ok if I post here.

Hi, I'm Daysie. I've been a member of TB for a few years now. DH and I have been TTTC #1 for 2 1/2 years, and in those 2 years I've been pregnant 3 times and have had 3 losses. The first lost was after I conceived naturally, and lost it at 5 weeks. The second was a CP after a fresh IVF transfer, and the 3rd was just this past fall after a FET. Detailed history is in my siggy. We just did FET #2 last week and I am currently 9dp5dt. I got my first +HPT on Monday at 5dp5dt, my first beta is scheduled for Tuesday. I've been dealing with a lot of anxiety the last few days and lots of fear.

ETA: I'm pretty active on the IF board still, and did do and intro to PAIF too. Trying to find a good place to go.

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  • Congrats on your BFP!  I understand the anxiety.. hang in there!
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  • I am so sorry for your losses and everything you have been through. Congratulations and welcome to the board!
    MC 4/09 at 6w2d 
    Rainbow Jude 
    born: 12/31/09
    Pre-E Induction at 36w4d
    11 Day NICU stay due to GBS infection

    TTC#2 10/2010
    M/C: 4/09/11 5w
    CP: 12/26/2011 
    CP: 1/28/2012 
    MMC: 4/16/2012 at 11w2d 
    Ectopic: 6/25/2012 MTX 07/03/12
    CP 11/24/2012 
    Rainbow Violet 
    born: 9/11/13

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    I'm so sorry for your losses and your battle to get here, but welcome and congratulations!

    Exactly this!  Hope you're here for a happy and healthy 9 months! 

    Kim 

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  • Congratulations on your BFP, and welcome! You're absolutely in the right place. These ladies are awesome!

    FX for your beta on Tuesday

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    BFP#1 03/17/12 DD 11/09/12 Missed MC 05/14/12 (No growth past 9wk1d) D&C 05/22/12
    Removal of Ovarian Cyst 07/27/12
    BFP#2 09/17/12 DD 05/29/13 STICK BABY STICK!

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  • Congrats again hon! so excited for you! praying hard!
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    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
  • I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope you have a long & healthy 9 months.
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  • Daysie!!!!

    So happy to see one of my IF buddies over here! Of course you're welcome here.

    Squeeeeeee!

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    BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
    BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses, but congratulations and welcome!!

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  • Congratulations and welcome! I hope that this is it for you, and you find the support that you need. A very happy and healthy nine months to you!
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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

    “So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
  • Welcome to the board and huge congrats to you!!!!

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    BFP#1 D&C May 18th 2012 at 9 wks. EDD Dec 17 2012
    BFP#2 CP Sept 17th 2012 at 4.5 wks. EDD May 23 2013
    BFP#3 EDD June 24th 2013 IT'S A GIRL!
    BFP#4 EDD March 2 2015
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  • Daysie!! I remember you when I was first on TTGP (over a year ago) and have somewhat been following you - I AM SO EXCITED to see this FET gave you a BFP - CONGRATS!! fx for great betas and I hope and pray this is it!

    WELCOME!

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    Congrats again hon! so excited for you! praying hard!

     

    It's so nice to see your lovely face again!!

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    Daysie!!!!

    So happy to see one of my IF buddies over here! Of course you're welcome here.

    Squeeeeeee!

     

    Boots! SO nice to have you here too! I'm so freaking scared and nervous!

  • You are quite welcome!  This is a wonderful group of ladies who help get me through all my neurotic PgAL brain flares.  ((hugs)) 

     

    TTC #1 Since 4/2010, Cycle 30
    Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant :p
    Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
    4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
    7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
    IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
    FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
    4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
    FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
    FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
    1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB :), 2nd u/s 146bpm
    baby girl born 5/10/13

    TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
    Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28. 
    IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
    IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
    IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
    FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
    FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!!  Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!

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    imagejen629:
    Congrats again hon! so excited for you! praying hard!

     

    It's so nice to see your lovely face again!!

    I know I miss and I stalk you on the IF boards :/
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    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
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    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
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    imagejen629:
    Congrats again hon! so excited for you! praying hard!

     

    It's so nice to see your lovely face again!!

    I know I miss and I stalk you on the IF boards :/

     

    I have a stalker?!?!? lol Jen, I'm am so terrified right now! There were no explanations for the previous losses so there's not much that was done differently this time. I'm just fearful it will end the same as all the pervious ones. I wish I could be more hopeful...

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    imagejen629:
    Congrats again hon! so excited for you! praying hard!

     

    It's so nice to see your lovely face again!!

    I know I miss and I stalk you on the IF boards :/

     

    I have a stalker?!?!? lol Jen, I'm am so terrified right now! There were no explanations for the previous losses so there's not much that was done differently this time. I'm just fearful it will end the same as all the pervious ones. I wish I could be more hopeful...

    I know it is so scary.. I had no reasons for my 3 losses in a row either...I will rub my 4th time is a charm luck on your belly...also with this pregnancy my first beta was 7 so everyone thought i was going to lose it and apparently were wrong..I pray for such good things for you ...and I stalk you only in a good way because I dont feel comfortable posting with my tickers on that board ;)
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
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    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
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    imagejen629:
    Congrats again hon! so excited for you! praying hard!

     

    It's so nice to see your lovely face again!!

    I know I miss and I stalk you on the IF boards :/

     

    I have a stalker?!?!? lol Jen, I'm am so terrified right now! There were no explanations for the previous losses so there's not much that was done differently this time. I'm just fearful it will end the same as all the pervious ones. I wish I could be more hopeful...

    I know it is so scary.. I had no reasons for my 3 losses in a row either...I will rub my 4th time is a charm luck on your belly...also with this pregnancy my first beta was 7 so everyone thought i was going to lose it and apparently were wrong..I pray for such good things for you ...and I stalk you only in a good way because I dont feel comfortable posting with my tickers on that board ;)

    Haha, I'm totally ok with some as awesome as you stalking me! I know you do it out of love! Thanks for the encouragement. I'm already terrified to hear my 1st beta and it's not even for another 4 days.

  • Of course you are welcome to post here!
    I'm sorry your road to get here has been so winding, but congratulations!
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  • I so sorry for everything you have been through. Congrats on your bfp! I hope everything goes great for the next nine months!

  • I am so sorry for your losses but I am glad you are here! Congratulations :)

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  • Wow, you've had quite the juorney! Congrats on your BFP and welcome to the board! :)
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  • Congrats and welcome!!! I hope this is your take home baby!
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    TTC #1 since Feb 2011 Dx: MTHFR C677T Homozygous, Antiphospholipid Syndrome, LPD
    BFP #1: 8/4/11 c/p 4w5d
    BFP #2: 9/4/11 c/p 5w0d
    BFP #3: 1/16/12 c/p 4w0d
    BFP #4 8/9/12 m/c 7w3d
    BFP #5 11/2/12 ?EDD 7/16/13? PLEASE grow sweet baby!!
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  • ::waves::

    You're among good company over here so grab a chair and park in it for a LONG time. :)

    Six years of infertility and loss, four IUIs, one IVF and one very awesome little boy born via med-free birth 10.24.13.
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  • Congrats and welcome!

    BFP #1 4/10/12 D&C 6/5/12@ 12.5wks EDD 12/17/12
    BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
    BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
    BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15

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  • Welcome and congrats!
  • I am so happy to see you here, Daysie! I remember you from the old days on TTGP. I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months!!
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    Hi again!  You are more then welcome here.  Sorry for your losses, welcome!  These ladies are amazing!

     

    Another face I know!

  • It's nice to see some familiar face! Thanks ladies!
  • You are definitely welcome here!  Congratulations on your pregnancy.

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    BFP#2 3/25/12 ~ Heartbeat 141 4/16/12 ~ No heartbeat 4/25/12 ~ D&C 04/30/12 
    BFP#3 7/16/12 ~ EDD 3/26/13 ~ It's a BOY ~ DOB 2/26/13






  • Welcome, Daysie!  Glad to have you here. I understand anxiety and fear, and I really hope you will get to stick around here.  GL at your beta on Tuesday!
    PAIF/SAIF, PGAL/PAL welcome.
    TTC since March 2010 ~ Dx Unexplained IF September 2011
    2011: IUI + Clomid = CP#1
    2012: 3 more IUIs + Clomid = 3 more CPs. One on-our-own pg, also CP
    2013: BTB IUI + Lupron/Follistim/Prometrium/PIO = CP #6
    IF testing, RPL testing, Autoimmune testing = all normal
    So lost.
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  • I'm sorry about your losses and struggle to get here, but congrats and welcome!
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  • Hi Daysie! I'm really glad to see you here and wish you a very easy and boring full term pregnancy and healthy baby. Welcomes and congrats!!
    TTC #1 since January 2011
    BFP#1 April 12, 2011, EDD December 24, 2011, strong heart beat at 7w3d, d&c at 10w6d
    BFP#2 Oct 24, 2011, natural miscarriage, EDD unknown
    After RPL testing my losses and subsequent infertility are considered unexplained.
    Cycle #22: Femara, TI, and progesterone = BFP!! 
    BFP#3 Dec 21, 2012. Beta #1 @14dpo = 134, progesterone 67.8. Beta #2 @ 17dpo = 664! Team green, EDD 9/1/13, healthy baby boy born 9/12/13!
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    Congratulations to the fabulous KGS2003! Her sweet boys are here! Grow boys grow!!!
  • I'm so happy to see you here!  Congrats and welcome!  I hope it's a completely happy and uneventful 9 months for you!

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    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
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    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
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  • Congrats and welcome to the board. 
    TTC #1 Since Oct 2011
    BFP #1 4/29/12 m/c 5/18/12 at 6w2d
    BFP #2 8/28/12 EDD 5/10/13 MC 9/22/12 at 6w4d
    BFP #3 12/31/12 EDD 9/12/13

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  • Congrats and welcome on board!!
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    BFP #3: 01/28/12, EDD: 09/23/12, MMC (BO), D&C 2/16/12 at 6.5 wks
    BFP #4: 05/23/12, EDD: 01/31/12, Early MC at 5 wks

    RPL Workup: + LPD (7DPO Prog = 7.8, Endometrial Bx = out of phase)
    Elevated Alpha 2-glycoprotein IgA and antiphosphatidylserine IgM -->
    Hematologist said not to worry and no need for treatment!

    Dx: LPD
    Cycle #1(08/2012): Clomid 50 mg CD3-7, Ovidrel CD13 + Progesterone = It worked!
    BFP #5 on 09/10/12 (11 DPO). HCG #1 @ 14DPO = 131.6 HCG #2 @ 16DPO = 509
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