I am a new mom of twin girls. I had them at 34 weeks on jan 10 and they came home from the NICU on feb 4.
the girls sleep a lot during the day between feedings and are angels. But at night, it's a different story. they are awake and fussy and get into several screaming fits. My husband and I have different methods of dealing with this and I just wanted to see which 1 is the right way to handle their crying fits at this age. My Husband will let them cry it out for an hour and I pick them up and coddle them until they feel better. I know when they are older I shouldn't do this but they are so little it makes me sick to hear them cry for an extended period of time. My husband and I switch which baby we have each night so I feel like they get tough love from daddy and warm love from mommy. It's very frustrating and its impossible for me to tend to both at night. Any advice would be much appreciated!