Not sure if this was posted recently... But for those of you having a baby with older siblings, are you having a sprinkle ? My SIL and mom want to plan one for me but I just feel bad about having one ! Our boys are very close together [18 months and obviously same sex] so I just feel like it's gift grabby no matter how you spin it. Even if people just bring diapers or whatever, it feels very unnecessary ! Thoughts ??