I am almost 23 weeks with identical twins. Tons of my friends are preggers too, but with one boo, and they are buying everything under the bloody sun. Am I behind on my game? Should I be spend happy right now? I am thoroughly not entertained by baby stuff shopping and we do not want to find out the sex until birth so getting too crazy seems like it could be a waste. I am having a shower after the boos are here. I got the room remodeled, but am not jumping at cribs, play pens, etc. What should I get? Should I wait longer? How do you get in the mood for baby shopping when you are a walking hippo? Do share tips por favor and must have items before my shower. Dressers and cribs will be done, but what about the other goodies?