We have some friends (our Bible study leaders) who have struggled with infertility and recently made the decision to grow their family through adoption. We're probably going to announce our pregnancy at Bible study in the next few weeks. Would it be best to tell them privately beforehand? My husband is pretty good friends with the other husband, so I could just have him send a text like, "Hey, we have good news. Baby #2 is on the way. We're planning to tell the Bible study group next week, but we wanted to let you guys know first." I've never struggled with infertility, but I imagine it is extremely difficult, and I want to be sensitive to them (without being so over-sensitive it's condescending).
Thanks for your advice!