Is this possible? Since last week my lo refuses to nap during the day anywhere but in my arms. Within 5 min of putting him down he cries to be picked up. My mother has been all over me about this saying that I am creating bad habits. Can you really spoil a one month old baby? Also, is anyone having a similar issue? any tips to resolve it? I dont like to swaddle during the day because we swaddle at night and I feel like he knows thats a sign its time for bed. At night we are getting 5-7 hours.