FTM here with a problem. This was my first week back to work and was very hard for me as I really didn't want to go back to work. I knew putting DD in daycare was going to be an adjustment for her and that she wouldn't necessarily follow our normal routine, but after I read her report today when I got home from picking her up it really upset me.
I drop DD off at Daycare at 6:00 and this is when she has her first bottle. So this morning she had her first bottle at 6:00 and had 6 oz. She had a nap from 7:20 to 8:30 and then another one from 9:15 to 12:00. I'm very upset because she did not get a second bottle until 12:25 and had 5 oz, after she woke up from her second nap. My 12 week old went 6 hours without eating!! I don't understand why they didn't feed her in between naps!? I'm very upset because she is not the best eater and to go that long and her age really irks me.
Also I cloth diaper and on Wednesday when I went to wash her diapers I noticed that there were no wipes in there. When I said something to her Thursday morning she was like "Oh you wipe her everytime?" Uh yea! And I did notice today that she was starting to get a rash which we have never had a problem with. She had her first diaper change at daycare today at 8:30 and then not another one until 12:15, and then one at 2:30. I picked her up at 4:15 and she had leaked through. So from 6 until 4 she only had her diaper changed 3 times!And I know one of the teachers didn't change her one day after her nap. When I got there she was feeding DD and was like "Oh I haven't changed her yet from her nap" and DD was almost done with her bottle. Um yea like I really want her having to sit in a wet diaper while she eats.
So I am definately going to discuss this come Monday. My question is do I discuss it first with nursery teacher or go straight to the owner? Also should I write out how I would like her schedule to be and go over what I expect from them again? For the most part I've let DD kind of dictate it, but it's never far off maybe a half hour here or there on feedings or naps but usually pretty consistent. And this week it's been all over, which I did expect to some exstant since this is completely new to her. This just really makes me want to quit work and stay home so that I know she's being taken care of how I like. Any suggestions on how to handle this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!