Having two kids is so much harder than I thought it would be. I have a two year old and a 1 month old. As soon as I get them both napping at the same time or down for the night, I feel like I have to clean the mess of a house I have, I just feel bad if I sit down and let my house be destroyed. And getting ready? I am lucky to get eyeliner on and my hair in a bun. Sweats are my life. Please tell me someone else out there is feeling the same way. And anyone that has experience in this, when does it get easier?