So DH and I just got our Tdap vaccine so that we're protected prior to the arrival of our little guy. Both of our parents are taking a "Joy of Grandparenting" class at the hospital where we are delivering. I'm hoping that the topic comes up there, but has anyone had this discussion with their parents? Of course, we aren't going to give a no vaccine = no baby ultimatum. But how can you tactfully/nicely bring up the subject? Especially without using the "My doctor says...", not tactful to me.