So, when you are holding a baby who starts giving hunger cues like sucking her fingers and then bouncing her head, you would give her back to the mom to feed her, right? And even if you didn't believe the mom when she said the baby was getting hungry, once the baby started crying, you'd at least then get the picture and hand over the baby, right? You wouldn't tel the mother that the baby wasn't that hungry because she wasn't crying hard enough, would you?
Well, my MIL has done this to me twice now! DH has to go and literally pry DD from her arms! It makes me so mad.