April 2013 Moms

Let's talk about Sex...

I have been wanting to post this for about a week and finally have a free moment...curious, now that most or all of us are in the third tri...which was the best for doing the do, first, second or third?
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  • For me...first was scary, since I spotted, so we only did once or twice that tri. Second was better, but third is the best, even though I feel like a beast!
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  • What is sex?
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  • I had crazy sex overdrive 1st trimester, but always felt sick and dizzy afterward from all the jostling.  2nd trimester the sick feeling went away but DH started to get a little weirded out by the expanding belly.  Now that we're entering 3rd trimester, we're down to like once a week, and I'M the one that's scared of throwing myself into preterm labor because of nookie.
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  • I'd have to say thrid so far. DH don't actually believe I was pregnant until the first trimester was over. Then I got put on pelvic rest in the second. I guess it's better for us now bc he feels like there is all that time to make up for lol.
  • I was on pelvic rest all of 1st tri, but we have been enjoying it ever since!!! I'm looking forward to some time tonight :
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    What is sex?

    this exactly! 

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  • When I am physically up to it, thirds been good. I had horrible m/s for all of first and most of second.
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  • Celebratory first tri sex was awesome.  I didn't have many symptoms other than being tired, so we were able to get frisky often.  Not too much lovin' second tri.  So far third tri isn't being cooperative- It's not all that comfortable and we have yet to find something that really works.  But the sex dreams are spectacular.
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  • None. First tri sucked and it's just been uncomfortable since.
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  • Our sex life has never really changed. Although this is #3 for us so that might play into it as well. Although DH's work schedule has changed slightly and I try to go to bed earlier (10 - 10:30) and get up with him in the morning so it seems like we are going for morning sex more often but I think that has to do with the schedule change and the kids are still sleeping. :)
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    My thoughts exactly 
  • Second tri has always been best for me. First tri I was sick, miserable and exhausted. Second tri I got my "second wind" and had lots of energy (in and out of the bedroom, hahaha!), and while I still desperately WANT to have sex with H, the back pain, insomnia, and feeling like the Pillsbury Doughboy are all serious mood killers. 
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    What is sex?

    Haha...I love it!  I would say early second trimester was when the most sex happened for me bc I was barely showing and I could still move around.  Since then sex for me has been pretty rare, lol.

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  • Up until about 20 weeks I had severe morning sickness so that was definitely not happening for us. I then had a short window where I felt ok and wasn't huge. Now that I'm so big it's really uncomfortable again so it's not happening often. 

     

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    What is sex?

    Yep, this.
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    What is sex?


    This makes me sad. I've been on bedrest and a no sex rule since 19 weeks. Not even allowed to orgasm! That means I've went 13 weeks with NOTHING. Being told you're not allowed to be intimate with your husband is the worst feeling ever.
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    Our sex life has never really changed. Although this is 3 for us so that might play into it as well. Although DH's work schedule has changed slightly and I try to go to bed earlier 10 10:30 and get up with him in the morning so it seems like we are going for morning sex more often but I think that has to do with the schedule change and the kids are still sleeping. :

    My kids don't sleep. I fall asleep putting DD2 to bed around 9pm. She wakes up at midnight to come sleep with us. She generally wakes up in the morning the second I get up and she's not physically touching me anymore. The last time I tried to have morning sex in the bathroom, I got interrupted by a toddler yelling Mommy, Mommy. I much prefer morning sex.

    I did have great sex every day while DH and I took a cruise without kids. That was second trimester... 2 months ago, not that I'm counting.
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    image Angela814:
    What is sex?


    This makes me sad. I've been on bedrest and a no sex rule since 19 weeks. Not even allowed to orgasm! That means I've went 13 weeks with NOTHING. Being told you're not allowed to be intimate with your husband is the worst feeling ever.

    what is the harm in having an orgasm? That seems insanely strict!
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  • We had a lot of sex through most of the second trimester. It was great. Now I still have an extra high sex drive but I am once again totally exhausted by 8pm so we haven't been having much sex the last few weeks.
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    This makes me sad. I've been on bedrest and a no sex rule since 19 weeks. Not even allowed to orgasm! That means I've went 13 weeks with NOTHING. Being told you're not allowed to be intimate with your husband is the worst feeling ever.

    what is the harm in having an orgasm? That seems insanely strict!


    It's not strict when you are on pelvic rest. Having an orgasm causes your uterus to contract. Clearly her dr doesn't want that to happen.
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    image Angela814:
    What is sex?

    Yep, this.
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    image Angela814:
    What is sex?

    this exactly! 



    This exactly! I am massive and we have yet to find a "position" that works.
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  • Pregnancy has really drastically slowed down our sex life.  First tri, we did it maybe twice, because we were both so scared of something bad happening (having had a previous early miscarriage).  2nd tri was maybe a little more... Third tri about the same, so far.  I'm just not up to it, I've had horrible groin pain sice November.
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  • Sorry cant help here, I am in the "whats sex?" group. Couldnt even tell you what season it was in, lol
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  • image Angela814:
    What is sex?


    Yup. First tri we couldn't really because I had a baseball sized cyst on my ovary and OB said it was best not to until it disappeared. Second tri was back to normal. Fun times! Third has been a dry spell. I think we've had sex twice since November. It's not comfortable for me at all and the drive just isn't there. My husband's been good about it. Though he did very politely and cautiously ask the other day if we could try again soon.
  • Gonna be TMI..

    Third, although I was lucky with each tri and they were all great, but I can get back on top now and holy mother of god is that stimulating ;) lol

  • First and third tri's for us. TMI alert, there a little to much goo in the second tri for either of our liking. I am still barely showing though, so position hasn't been an issue for us.
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  • Well I've bn on bedrest and pelvic rest since 10 wks due to incompetent cervix and preterm labor. I got my preventative cerclarge at 10 wks since I had less than 1 cm of cervix left at the appt. I dream of the day my husband and I can be intimate again. I promised to ravish him. lol. It's terrible. I am so jealous of you guys.    
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