I need to get going with a cake order for K's first birthday. We have about 20 adults and 10 kids (ages 3-6 mostly) coming. I have the finger foods figured out, but was not sure about cake. Are cupcakes best for kids? Will cake work just as well? Or I could do both- cupcakes for kids and LO and a smaller K for adults. What's worked for you mama's who are done with parties already?