My Aunts want to throw me a shower ( which I really don't, its just not my kind of thing )
I have a friend who has a child in treatment at a children's hospital for an illness. Can I do an in "lieu of gifts"please give to this child or children on this hospital floor. H and I can provide just fine and i know my mother and other family will give us gifts without needing a shower. I would rather give to children than get gifts I might never use. Thoughts?