I love my DH. He means well and has wanted to be very hands-on and proactive this entire pregnancy. We've discussed the birth plan and other decisions for when our LO gets here. But he threw out a question to me last night and I didn't know how to answer... DH caves whenever I ask him to do something. I try not to abuse this power to easily, but it is what it is. We both feel very stronly about a natural delivery, but I threw out the question, "What if, in a moment of weakness, I ask for an epidural? What would you do?" and he was stumped. He asked what he can do to help me stay strong but he said, "seeing you in any pain isn't good for me; I'll just want to do whatever to make you feel better, even if I know it's not what you want or in your best interest." So how can I prep DH to stay strong in the delivery room? Any advice from you dads?