So I have always dreamed of naming my daughter after me, not necessarily for me but because I genuinely love my name. I grew up loving my name... Yajaira. I had talked to the father and he originally said he was on board, then he said maybe as a middle name and now he doesn't seem to really like it. He thinks it's too confusing to have the mother and daughter have the same name. I'm so upset because I really don't have another name in mind. Since I was a kid I knew it was what I was going to name my daughter. It just sucks that because I am a woman it's too confusing but if it's a boy and he wants to name him after him there wouldn't be an issue. I just had my heart set on it.