My baby shower is still a while away so this can change but I want your opinion on this. I just found out from my sister that the hosts are planning a potluck baby shower. I'm perfectly fine with this, and I understand that showers cost money so I'm not going to argue it. My only point of contension is that it might be rude to have a registry when you are expecting people to bring food also?
I'm not sure how it works for showers, but we did a potluck wedding and did not have a registry. We got some money, but didn't ask.
My husband's opinion is that if I don't have a registry included people are going to be pissed off because they won't know what to buy. When I mentioned this to my sister she got all offended that she can't afford a "foo foo fussy girl shower." I know money is a touchy subject for a lot of people and that's why I'm not sure what to do.