I think I know the answer, but I've got a mom in my ear whispering something else so I'd like an opinion besides my own. DS has been pushing his morning nap later (10:30-12:30ish), pushing his afternoon nap even further. I have to put him down at 4, hopefully he's asleep by 4:30, then I wake him at 5:30 so he doesn't sleep too late for bedtime at 8. In the past week or so I've had to rock him to sleep for some of those second naps because he just can't settle himself down.
I think it's time to drop to 1 nap. Occasionally we've had to do 1-a-day naps from about 1-3pm. It's hard, and he's super cranky before the nap and bedtime...but IMO if I'm having to rock him to sleep he just really doesn't need that nap that badly anymore. WTYT?