DH and I think our family will be complete with two kids. In the past, we've thrown around possibly having three or four. At this time, financially and logistically, two seems to be the "right" number. The plan is for DH to get fixed after I have the next one (probably next year) while I am also out of commission.
HOWEVER, I am worried that I will change my mind later and wish we had three! I know a vasectomy is always reversible, but we likely wouldn't opt for the expense.
My question is... is there a sort of family counselor that would help us delve deeper into this after our next baby is born so that we look at it from all sides and make the best decision for our family?
I'd hate to make the decision and then at some point, wish I hadn't because I didn't think about it enough. Sorry for the idiocy, I am really curious.