I am very torn about who to pick as my first childs godmother. My husband doesn't have any siblings and I have one brother which we decided will be the godfather. My best friend grew up together and have been friends for 29 years. She had 2 children and did not pick me to be godmother for either. I was extremely hurt by that. I know it may sound foolish but I do not want to pick her as my childs godmother now. My brother has been with his gf for 3 years and I was thinking of picking her but what if they break up? I have friends that I could pick but I am so confused! Did anyone else have this problem?