I have my shower next weekend. There will be about 20 people so its not too large but a lot of the people are family friends and family that I'm not super close with. I am the first of my friends to have a baby and have never been to a shower. I'm a quiet, reserved person and feel awkward when all of the attention is on me. I am super nervous about opening gifts in front of everyone. Any advice on how to maybe take the attention off me a little during this process? Also, any advice on how to react to gifts? Obviously I know how to be gracious and polite but I want to show just how thankful I am without saying the same thing to everyone. I guess any suggestions, advice, or etiquette rules about the gift opening part of a shower would be helpful!