How many syllables do you feel is too many? We have a 4 syllable last name that ends in "er" and have chosen a girl's name (we're waiting to be surprised!) that is 3 syllables. Now we are trying to pick a middle name. Would you stick to 1 and 2 syllable middle names or does it not matter in your opinion? I already am feeling bad about her having to learn to write it all! Thanks!