My Husband and I have a three month old son. It's our first baby. And it's been a very, very rough road. Men just have a difficult time understand what it's like for a woman to go through pregnancy and birth and breastfeeding, and postpartum depression and being a stay-at-home-mom. My Husband has yes, been gracious at times, but overall, he is "over hearing about how hard this is, and I need to let go of the pregnancy/labor/breastfeeding issues". He is also is beginning to criticize me for wanting to get back in to shape, saying I am insecure and trying too hard. It makes me want to punch him, and it's just caused a lot of resentment on my end. Aside from that, he is immature. He is in his thirties and he keeps lying to me about dumb things, he has battled with smoking and pill addiction and he stopped for a long time and then started up about a week ago, and I hate that our son will be around that. I just feel like I grew up so much and he went back about three steps. He is a great, great, very hands on dad...he really is. But I just feel like all these other things are making me lose respect for him, and I think just being a mom is hard enough, that marriage problems are just taking a toll. I dream about running away, lol.He has said my postpartum depression is too hard to deal with and he cant do it anymore, that part of him has checked out because of it....I just feel that there is no compassion.
Anyone else dealing/dealt with marital problems? Dumb Husbands?