So early on, a friend offered to host my shower, we do have a lot of mutual friends, she also mentioned to make into a couple's shower, since a lot of our mutual friends are single guys who are my husband's best friends and have been asking if they would be invited to the shower or not.
I only had one minor concern and it was, I met this friend long time ago thru a relative, they have lost the friendship and have cut each other out of their lives, and so some of the ladies I have to invite took my relative's side, so I had a dilemma how to handle the guest list, etc.
Today I got an offer from the relative that she wants to host a shower. So here are my questions:
1) Is it too bad to have two showers? This would make my life so much simpler, I can have two smaller showers, one would be younger friends, the other one would be relatives and family friends.
2) Do I have to explain to either hosts, the situation that I would be having two showers, one would be friends and one would be relatives and who the hosts are?