So, riddle me this? Why is it SO TABOO that a mother or a mother-to-be is sexual and LIKES it? I like sexy get up and even delve a little into the fetish world (nothing gross or violent). I just feel like...esp now that I'm pregnant...that I get pushed to play the quiet church going lady who runs to the PTA and wears khaki pants and mom type blouses.
That's not me. Never has been. It NEVER will be. I enjoy the dark corners of our world, the scary, the unknown, the weird, whatever you want to call it. I have a college degree, I love my unborn child, I'm not going to raise my son to be perverted or a rapist or a sex fiend, I understand and get the difference between a lady on the streets and a freak in the sheets. But, why is it I can't even TALK about fetish boots or a corset or sex positions or ask questions that go a little further than...we only do missionary? It's not fair, and it's an unjust judgement to think that because I won't dress, talk, attend church or do other "matronly" activities that I take my son, family, or friends and less sincere or serious than any other mom would.