Any other FTM's getting sick of people that have children talking to you like you're an idiot? Is anyone else even having this issue? I am all for advice, I wouldn't come on here if I wasn't, but really only of it's constructive advice. For example, my dad asked me if we were planning on putting the baby down on the changing table and walking away. My response was, umm no because I'm not an idiot. His assumption was that because I've never had a baby before, I wouldn't know that I shouldn't do that. I may not have a child yet but I do have a brain! My favorite is the, "do you even know how to change a diaper" comment. Yes, I do actually and if I didn't I would learn just like every first time parent had to learn. Do these people forget that they too were a first time parent at some point? And I'm sorry, I don't care how many nieces and nephews you have, if you've never been pregnant or had a child, please don't try to tell me how it is because you don't know either! Ugh!