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Hi!

I read over the TTCAL blog, so I hope I don't ask/say something that people are tired of reading.

I had a missed mc at 8 wks. They did a D&C on December 21, which was.. horrible. It was the worst experience of my life.

I am trying to heal, but it seems like I have these weird mood swings. I don't want to be around certain people, either, for seemingly no reason. I feel like I've become antisocial. I feel like I'm overreacting because really eight weeks is nothing.. some people have it far, far worse than I could even imagine. 

Anyhoo, I was hoping I could join this board and connect with some women who are in the same boat. 

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    MsAmandaPantsMsAmandaPants member
    8 weeks isn't nothing. You don't have to make light of your loss here and what you are feeling is very normal.  I'm very sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    Me: 36 yo, TTC #1 since Feb. 2012
    BFP #1, 3/12, EDD 11/9/12, MMC 3/27/12, D&C 4/10/12

    BFP #2: 11/16/12, EDD 7/25/13, MMC 12/5/12, D&C 12/6/12, Complete molar pregnancy confirmed 2/9/13, benched for 6 months until  August 2013

    IUI #1, 8/16/13 Femara + Menopur, 3 mature follicles, BFN
    IUI #2 (back-to-back, 9/12/13 and 9/13/13) Femara + Menopur, four mature follicles, BFFN
    IUI #3, 10/8/13 Femara + Menopur, six mature follicles, BFN

    BFP #3, 12/9/2013, while on treatment break, EDD: 8/22/2014  Please stick and grow, LO!

    Additional Dx: hypothyroidism, TgAb positive & anti-TPO positive, POR/DOR (2/2013), and suspected endometriosis

    ******All AL always welcome******
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    ashx3reneeashx3renee member
    You are not overreacting, 8 weeks is not nothing!  I am so very sorry for your loss.  It will get easier in time, but it will always stick with you.  Just give yourself the time you need to heal.  This board is very supportive and full of wonderful ladies. Welcome. 
    9.08.12 BFP! | 11.01.12 MMC Discovered at 12 weeks| 11.06.12 D&C 
    11.25.13 BFP#2| 4.07.14 TEAM PINK!!!|EDD 8.8.14 Please be our Rainbow Charlotte Grace <3
    7.01.15 BFP#3| 10.06.15 TEAM BLUE!| EDD 3.02.16
    PgAL/PAL always welcome
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    cpm1223cpm1223 member

    Welcome to the board! I'm so sorry for your loss ((hugs))

     Please do not feel like just because you lost your baby at 8 weeks that it was "nothing" You have every right to hurt just as much as anyone who's going through this.

    This board is great (I'm new too) and I've felt welcomed and happy to know that I have a group of people that I can talk to about how I'm feeling..knowing they all understand what I'm going through.

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    Missing Our July Sparkler
    BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
    BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron <3

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    kr_rykr_ry member
    I am very sorry for your loss. I just want you to know that any loss regardless of when it happens is still painful and you have a right to the feelings that you have. Welcome to the board.
    TW loss mentioned 

    **BFP#1 9/5/12   EDD 5/15/13  changed to 5/25/13 after u/s,  missed mc 10/19/12.  D and C 10/22/12** 
     **BFP#2 9/12/13  EDD 5/16/14 changed to 5/27/14 after u/s, hb 126 on 10/11/13, miscarriage on 10/24.13**
    ~RPL testing results from 12/6/13 show everything normal except elevated prolactin. Blood work is now in the normal range. All AL welcome!
    BFP #3 10/24/14  Our rainbow baby was born July 2015
    BFP 4 10/28/19 EDD 7/6/20
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    CrunkalCrunkal member

    imageMsAmandaPants:
    8 weeks isn't nothing. You don't have to make light of your loss here and what you are feeling is very normal.  I'm very sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

     

    This!

    Don't make light of your loss. You have every right to be sad. Very sorry for your loss dear. Welcome hope your stay here is short and sweet.  

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    Saritaota614Saritaota614 member

    ((hugs))

    I also lost my baby at 8 weeks.  It was the hardest thing I have ever gone through!

    I'm so sorry you have found yourself here, but welcome! And I hope your stay is short. 

    Trying for our first since April 2011
    BFP 10/4/2012. Due 6/11/13. M/C 11/3/12
    Diagnosed Hypothyroidism 9/4/13
    BFP #2 11/11/13 Due 7/24/14
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    Today, I am pregnant.  Today, I am happy.
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    anitafloraanitaflora member
    I don't have much to add on top of what previous posters have said, but just wanted to welcome you to the board. I'm so sorry for your loss and hope your stay is short and sweet.

    And thanks for reading the blog too!

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     <dream 2> 12.2011


     2.10.12 : 4 weeks


    6.17.12 : 10 weeks


    10.10.12 : 4 weeks, 6 days


    12.13.12 : 9 weeks, 1 day


    4.6.13 : 4 weeks, 4 days


    10.27.13 : 5 weeks, 6 days


    4.2.14 (IVF #1) : 4 weeks, 1 day


    6.19.14 : IVF #2 Negative


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    buggirl72buggirl72 member
    I'm sorry for your loss and welcome to the board.

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    musicteach78musicteach78 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss and hope you can find comfort and support here!
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    imageappying2012:

    I am trying to heal, but it seems like I have these weird mood swings. I don't want to be around certain people, either, for seemingly no reason. I feel like I've become antisocial. I feel like I'm overreacting because really eight weeks is nothing.. some people have it far, far worse than I could even imagine. 

    Anyhoo, I was hoping I could join this board and connect with some women who are in the same boat. 

    I am sorry for your loss, but welcome to this board.

    Yes for reading the blog :)

    8 weeks isn't nothing! It's okay to be sad & upset, some people may have suffered worse things, but that doesn't make this less painful, less real, or less important.

    Yes  I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome, I hope your stay here is short and sweet.

    TTC Since 8/2011
    BFP #1 5/13/12 * EDD 1/24/13 * MC at 7 wks 4 days on 6/11/12
    BFP #2 5/13/13 * Current EDD 1/23/14

    Baby N born 2/8/14


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    alleycat39alleycat39 member
    SO sorry for your loss. 8 weeks is still a big deal in YOUR life and don't let anyone tell you otherwise! Yes, others may have been further along, but your life is the only one you wake up in every day! I went through that same phase of not caring to be social, etc etc. I will say time does heal, though of course I don't forget. I hope you find much comfort and support here!
    PCOS & ute crew member
    BFP #1: 10/24/2012  EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E 
    DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13
    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
    RPL, Karyotyping, and SHG: All Normal
    BFP #4: 9/6/14 EDD 5/16/15 Praying for our RAINBOW!
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    **All AL Welcome**

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    JSob13JSob13 member
    8 weeks is absolutely not nothing! I'm so sorry for your loss. I went through an antisocial phase for the couple months following my last miscarriage. It was too hard for me to act like nothing was bothering me and I didn't want to bring my friends down. Take time to heal. Those that know you well will understand and welcome you back with open arms and kind words once you're ready. I hope your stay here is short and good luck to you!
    BFP#1: 1/16/2012. EDD: 9/21/2012 CP: 1/18/2012 BFP#2: 6/21/2012. EDD: 3/2/2013. MMC: 7/27/2012 BFP#3: 2/14/2013. EDD: 10/24/2013.
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    AlicialgbAlicialgb member
    So sorry for your loss.  You are very welcome here, and I hope you find some peace amongst the ladies.  Any loss, regardless of how far along we were, is devastating.  ((HUGS))

    me:40; DH:41; 4/30/12 1st visit with RE; 6/30/12 IUI #1 BFN; 7/19/12 IUI cancelled (overmedicated); 8/2/12 IUI cancelled (cyst); 9/1/12 IUI #2 BFP! EDD 5/28/13; 10/9/12 1st U/S at 7w3d--missed m/c (trisomy 16) D&C 10/19/12; karyotyping results normal!; 1/31/13 IUI #3 BFP! EDD 10/25/13 Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Maternity tickers
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    appying2012appying2012 member
    Thanks so much for all of your support! I already feel better! :o)
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