Let me preface this by saying that with my last m/c I got an U/S at 8 weeks and it was showing my baby was developing at 5-6 weeks. We could barely see the fetal pole and a heartbeat. As a nurse, I jsut had this gut feeling that something wasn't right but hey, maybe I ovulated later than I thought. I later m/c at 10 weeks. That was really really no fun and that experience definitely brought me to my knees.
So I'm sitting here with the doctor's order in my hand to go get an U/S before my 1st appt at 12 weeks. I'm 6 weeks right now. So.....do I wait until 12 weeks when I'll be able to definitely see something resembling a human and almost out of the woods as far as likely chances of miscarrying again? Or....do I go get my U/S now to see and make sure there's actully something there developing? I'm torn. I guess I want reassurance with U/S that it's there and growing, but I really don't want to see the heartbeat again then lose it again after it becomes so real. Am I making any sense?
What would you do??