First things first, this is not a GBCB.
Clearing things up.
1) yes, my flamey confession was flamey and I should not have defended it while being flamed. I have never looked into it, I knew it was wrong, but I didn't know how wrong, and didn't see it as a big problem. Between the reactions and the stats, I recognize that it is now, so I apologize for that.
2) I am not an AE. I can't really prove that in any way, so you can either take my word or not.
3) the reason I know "bump history" is that I lurked for a long time. Through ttc, miscarriages, my pregnancy, and now my son's babyhood. So ya, I know a lot of past threads, and I realize this contributes to my potential AE-ness, but I'm not going to fake and pretend like I don't know what you're talking about.
So take it or leave it, there it is.
As for posthoaring, it's a slow week.