About 2 months ago I started back to work after 3 years of being home with my son ( hubby is staying home with the kiddos). Since my 1st day of work my son has peed and pooped his pants EVERYDAY.... I nor my hubby know what to do anymore. Time outs or a pat on the butt arn't working. We have even tried making him clean his undies out himself.... but i have not seen any change. i need ideas on what to do. Is this just a phase?????