I made H breakfast this weekend and didn't realize he got in the shower while I was cooking. When he came to eat I told him he ruined my plans. He kept asking me what plans, he can't handle a surprise (I had no plans was just bugging him). I asked him what he was going to do when we get pregnant. He thought we'd be finding out the sex. I thought we already had this conversation, I don't want to find out. Apparently he doesn't like surprises (this is news to me after seven years).
Out of curiosity what are you going to do?
I don't want to find out. I think it will be incredible to have that surprise after 9 months. I'm not girly and would rather have gender neutral clothing, nursery, gear, etc anyway.