FI's mom won't stop calling FI about our request that our families get the Tdap, if the haven't had a booster within the last 10 years. My family didn't have a problem with this request, so I'm not sure why his family is putting up so much of a fight.
She then is justifying his family that we see every Saturday shouldn't all have to get the Tdap because "not everyone will be holding him." Okay, that's fine by me, but just because someone isn't holding the baby doesn't mean that they can't spread the illness.
She is making me want to rip my effing hair out. Either get the vaccine, or don't be around the baby; it's not that difficult. I know that she was resisting and saying something about how I was overly paranoid on the phone with him. Yeah, I don't really care. I'd rather be overly paranoid than my infant end up in the ICU, or even die.
Am I off my rocker or is my request legit?