Had to reschedule my shower bc of a death in my hubby's family. He is going to the funeral I am not bc I cannot travel. Now one if my friends cannot make The shower. She would like to go to lunch this weekend. I told her I would love to but can't bc I was using that weekend to get the help I need around the house shower is at my house, finish up the nursery, and shop for furniture pieces. I asked would it be cool to come over my house. Then I get an invite from her and another friend to go to lunch on that sat. I gave the same response and now she is upset. I am carrying twins made it to 33 weeks and trying to hang in there for as long as I can with 1000 things to do and I am still working. How do I juggle this? I don't want to disappoint my friend but I am exhausted physically and mentally. Suggestions please.