So I have a friend who has been trying to get PG since DH and I got PG with our first DS (3 years ago). She was really upset and didn't talk to me much while I was pregnant (before that we were inseparable, my maid-of-honor in my wedding 3 months before our BFP). She skipped my baby shower and never came to see DS. The first time she saw him was when he was 18 months old because we ran into each other at the store. But the whole time I didn't know her infertility issue, until recently when we sat down and I finally got out of her what was wrong. I think everything is mended. Her, her DH, me, my DH and our DS all went to dinner right before Christmas, so things are good again!
Well now, DH and I are expecting our second child. How do I tell her? Without breaking her heart and loosing her all over again? I have no idea what to do. Do I call her? Send her a text? Tell her in-person over dinner (which I am not sure about because I don't know what her reaction would be and wouldn't want her to be uncomfortable)? Just wait until I put something on facebook and have her see it (which seems a bit cold to me)? I am so scared and I do not know what to do. It breaks my heart that her and her DH are having trouble getting pregnant.