My poor DH is trying so hard to help out with night feeds, but he gets frustrated so easily. He is a man that gets really messed up when his normal routine is damaged, especially his sleep. At the 2:00 am feed, LO's tummy was bothering her so she was squalling out a storm and he didn't know what to do about it. I went out to the living room where they were and he said "I can't get this G...D.. kid to shut up." Totally not like him to talk like that-NEVER says GD. So obviously I took the baby because it was clear he had had enough.
I know he's frustrated at her at night, but I wish he'd gain the patience as well. He doesn't adapt to change well. Poor man, tries to help with things, only to make them worse. Any advice/insight from other mommas?