Goodness, so my husband is getting his degree right now in professional sales. He will be done in April 2013 with his associates degree. I agree when we got married last April that he could finish school since he was closer then me. I would work. He only had one more year. So this last month we decided that we would transfer somewhere and get his bachelors degree. So that means 2 or 3 more years. In our opinion we might as well get it all done now so when our child is older we can afford it. It will be hard for a while because the baby was not in our plan. I am currently 16 weeks. Anyway one of my friends from high school were catching up last night and she pretty much yelled at me saying you can go to school there are a lot of moms that have someone watch there babies while they go to school. I decided along time ago that i would not be like that. I want to be there for my child, i want to experience there first word, talk, first everything. Not saying that people who go to work or go to school are bad moms but i decided that i want to be the type of mom that will stay home with there children. I feel like my dreams can wait awhile. If i want something bad enough I will do it. But if my husband gets an okay or great job and i don't need to work. I don't think i will go back to school or work. My dream was always to be a mom. I also have other dream but to me being a mom is the top of my list. Is this bad that i want to put a hold on them? Or that i am letting my husband finish school? Or that I care about being a mom more then anything?