I have often felt ousted here on the bump...which is part of the reason I took the break but came back again after our most recent loss. I like the idea of the vent specific post; and I try to put vent in my post titles when it is a vent but what is this community supposed to be? I know a lot of people have been here a long time and even though I had my break it's still been 6 months since I came to this board but I still feel for the ladies that are in their angry faze; they need to be angry and sometimes I need to be angry.
It's just hard to never offend anybody ever or not annoy anybody ever. The social labyrinth is almost as complicated as TTC itself.
I don't know what to say; this feels sort of like bullying. It just seems like if a post annoys you you shouldn't click on it...or if you don't want to hear about loss stuff then the normal TTC board is better...I don't know. I just think it's mean to discount parts of people's grieving process just because you are far beyond that particular part yourself. This is feeling very middle school; I might be done just as I began again. There's a lot of wonderful ladies and advice and support but the drama is just so distracting.