Hello! We are currently expecting baby number 2 in August. I of course told my best friend right after we heard the news. Right away she asked me if I was going to have my shower at my moms house or my house. Heres the thing I live 3 hours from my home town (which is where my bff lives as well). I know my mom would prefer to throw me a shower at her house, but if there is one in the works I would prefer it at my house. How do I make a hint of this with out them thinking Im expecting a shower? I was not even thinking of a shower until it was mentioned.