I am 33 weeks along and this is our 1st baby and was conceived on the first try. I am undoubtedly lucky. My BBF on the other hand has been trying for the same amount of time and no luck. Her and her hubby have tried countless conventional and non-conventional methods and now are on the path to IUI and IVF. They are understandably emotionally, mentally, and physically drained. My friend also has OCD which plays with her emotions all the more. We talk on the phone every couple weeks and I am torn. I feel guilt for feeling excited about our baby when I put myself into her shoes. I sit and listen to her for hours, but many times I'm at a loss in how to comfort her. I don't know what to say to her to try to keep her spirits up without giving her a false sense of hope. I can only imagine she can only hear "maybe next month it will work" so many times. I also find myself keeping happy experiences from my preg from her because I don't want to make her more depressed. How or what can I say to convey to her I care and support her without hiding my own excitement for my baby?