I was pregnant the same time last year except I never made it past the first trimester. I had what is called a Missed Miscarriage. The baby actually died at 9 weeks and I didn't found out until 12 weeks at an ultrasound.
This time I am already 8 weeks pregnant and I am so scared I am going to miscarry again. I have my first appointment with the doctor next week. I really want to ask for an ultra sound for proof of life. My husband thinks that I shouldn't ask at all. He says we should wait for the next ultrasound to find out. He tells me everyday to not to worry and remain calm, but my fears sometimes get the best of me.
Is there anything that I can do or ask the doctor that could help me feel better?