first of, let me say that the BCPs are making me b*tchy so this rant may not be deserved.
because i live in a rural locale, there is only one RE that my insurance covers (i know i am lucky to have insurance and we are so thankful). he only comes to the office i go to 8 days a month.
# of times I actually SAW him for
3 IUI procedures - 0
IVF #1 during stimming/monitoring - 0
ER/ET - 2
6 wk h/b, 7 wk h/b, 8 wk m/c - 0
d and c - 1
f/u after m/c - 0
FET #1 - 1 (for transfer)
FET #2 (on bcps now) - so far 0
he has the nerve to call my cell phone today, with no warning that he would call, to tell me he's sorry about the bfn we got on Christmas Eve! "Sorry it didn't work out. Thinking about you" Yeah, that was two weeks ago.
my response? no you're not assho!e. i think you've given my treatment plan about 2 seconds of thought.
even better is that when i was looking through my IVF binder last night, he calculates his success rate on hearing a h/b. so my IVF got counted as a success. funny, i don't feel like a success considering there is no baby inside of me!