I want to thank everyone on here who recommended watching this video. Me and DH watched it together tonight. right before sex! It seemed to really help him understand that even though I am the one temping/testing/etc. he also plays a huge role. obviously
I would highly recommend it to others who are having a hard time getting their SO to really get what is going on.
Also, I have to share a comment from DH. So, we were watching the part where the sperm are going through the vagina. I commented that it was like Lord of the Rings. I mention there should be a ring involved. DH says, that's when they stumble upon a Nuvaringspelling?. DH says, "one Nuvaring to stop them all." I laughed SO hard!
Anyway, thanks for the recommendation everyone!