DS over the past few weeks has become more and more clingy. He won't nap on his own anymore, I have to hold him. If I put him down, he screams. I can't take it, I spend my whole day sitting in the corner of the couch holding him. If I don't, it takes me 10 minutes to calm him down (like when I put him down to go to the bathroom today). I can't shower, can't exercise, can't clean the house. Half the time can't get myself something to eat. I can't put him down so I can play with my 3 y/o. I don't get a minute to myself, I don't know what to do. DH works all the time so I am pretty much alone. He also started this fun thing of screaming from 6 pm til bedtime. DH is working tonight so I had both kids alone. He SCREAMED the whole time I helped DD with her PJs and tried to read her bedtime stories. I finally had to plop him in the other room and let him scream so I could tuck her in.
I don't know what to do and am getting stressed and depressed. I feel le a bad mom to DD because I can't give her one on one time. I am upset I don't get two minutes to do anything for myself. I feel so alone in dealing with this. I try to text DH at work to get this stuff off my chest and he just says "yea" or "probably a phase" or "can't you just let him cry? ". I feel like he's not interested because he never is the one dealing with it so it doesn't matter to him. He is 9 weeks.