My mother is throwing me a baby shower. She lives in KS and I live in PA so I will be flying back for it (without the husband). We are registering at BRU and Target, is it tacky for my mother to request on the invite if anyone is purchasing a gift online that is heavy/bulky, to ship it to my local store for in-store pickup? As it would be free, it's no added cost to them. We both are unsure if that would be tacky to request, but more practical for me since I will be traveling alone. I know we can ship back to PA but that can get a bit costly. UGH!